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Who Doesn't Like to be Invited?

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If I were to ask you right now how you feel about inviting someone to church, what would you say? For some of you, the thought might bring a rush of excitement—a chance to share something that’s deeply meaningful to you. But for others, it might spark a little anxiety or even guilt.

being too pushy

What if they think I’m pushy?

What if they say no?

What if it damages our relationship?


I get it. Inviting someone to church can feel like walking a tightrope between sharing your faith and not wanting to come across as a salesperson trying to close a deal.


That’s exactly why I’m so thrilled to introduce our upcoming sermon series: “Invited In”


This series is tailor-made for people like us—people who want to invite others to experience the hope, love, and purpose we’ve found in Christ, but who wrestle with all the emotions and complexities that come with it. Over the next few weeks we’ll unpack what it means to invite others in a way that’s authentic, compassionate, and completely free of pressure.


Here’s a little preview of what’s coming—and why you won’t want to miss a single week.


 

Meeting Strangers


Have you ever been in a conversation where you knew you were supposed to say something about your faith, but the moment felt so delicate you decided to stay silent? Maybe it was a friend who’s been through a tough season or a family member who’s skeptical about anything church-related.


We’ll look at the story of Philip and the Ethiopian eunuch—a divine appointment that started with Philip simply listening and asking the right questions. It’s a story about meeting people where they are, not where we think they should be.


We’ll talk about how to navigate those relationship tensions with grace and love, learning to listen first and speak second. You’ll leave encouraged and ready to approach those tricky conversations with confidence.


When Compassion Sparks Courage


There’s something about true compassion that changes everything. It turns awkwardness into boldness and obligation into joy. But compassion isn’t always easy, especially when we feel guilt over friends or family members we haven’t shared our faith with yet.


We’ll dig into Paul’s letter to Philemon—a beautiful example of how love and compassion lead to powerful, life-changing connections. You’ll hear stories of how simple acts of kindness and genuine care can open doors to conversations about faith in ways you never expected.


Bringing Friends


Let’s face it: most of us carry a little guilt when it comes to sharing our faith. We think about friends we’ve drifted away from or family members we wish we could help more. But guilt was never meant to be the motivator for sharing God’s love. Hope is.


A set of friends brought a paralyzed man to Jesus. They were willing to go to incredible lengths—tearing apart a roof!—because they believed Jesus was the source of their friend’s healing and hope. Jesus said the faith of the man’s friends made the difference!


You’ll be inspired by their determination and reminded that it’s never too late to reengage with the people in your life. Guilt doesn’t have to hold you back. Instead, it can be replaced with hope for what God can do through you.


Bringing Family


Here’s a question we’ll explore together: what’s the difference between inviting someone to church and trying to “sell” them on faith? Spoiler alert: it’s all about relationships.


When Andrew met Jesus in John 1, the first thing he did was invite his brother Simon to come and see for himself. There was no sales pitch, no pressure—just a simple invitation rooted in excitement and authenticity.


We’ll talk about how to invite others in a way that feels natural and meaningful. You’ll discover how to be an inviter, not a salesperson, and why this shift can make all the difference in the way people respond.


 

Why This Series Matters


I know what you’re probably thinking: This all sounds great, but is it really for me?


The answer is absolutely, 100%, yes. Whether you’ve been in church your whole life or you’re still figuring out what faith means to you, this series is for anyone who’s wondered:


  • How do I share my faith without it feeling forced or awkward?


  • What do I do when I feel guilty about not inviting others sooner?


  • What should I invite them too?


  • Is it okay to want others to experience the joy I’ve found in Jesus?

 

Here’s the thing: we all long for connection and purpose. And when we invite someone to church—not as a “project” but as a friend—we’re opening the door for them to find the same hope and healing we’ve found.


Who Will You Invite?


As you read this, is there someone who comes to mind? Maybe it’s a coworker who’s been struggling, a neighbor you’ve always meant to connect with, or even a family member you’ve had countless conversations with but never invited to church.


This series isn’t just about you feeling inspired. It’s about equipping you to extend that inspiration to others.


Imagine what could happen if you invited them to join you for just one week. Imagine the conversations it might spark, the burdens it might lift, and the new sense of hope it could bring to their lives.


Let’s Do This Together


Inviting someone to church can feel scary. But it can also be one of the most rewarding things you’ll ever do. And here’s the best part: you’re not doing it alone.


Over the next few weeks, we’ll walk this journey together. You’ll hear practical tips, personal stories, and biblical truths that will equip and encourage you every step of the way.


Join us for this life-changing series.


Better yet, will you bring someone with you?


I can’t wait to see how God works through this series—not just in our church, but in the lives of the people we’re brave enough to invite. Let’s take this step together and watch what happens when we say “yes” to being part of something bigger than ourselves.


See you Sunday.


You won’t want to miss it.


If this message resonated with you, take a moment to think about who you could invite to join you. Share this blog post with them, or send a quick text letting them know you’d love to have them come along. Sometimes, all it takes is one invitation to change a life.


 

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